17 May 2006
 
Kissing
John:
I have never kissed so many men.

Okay, that's a sentence I never really thought I'd ever say/type. At Bonchi's party, each bloke I was introduced to came over and...

Well, it's like this. In Argentina, whenever friends meet, they kiss. But a kiss can be different things to different people. Here, it seems, there is a standard. You greet someone and touch cheeks, right cheeks, and make a little kiss sound. There isn't always lip on cheek contact, I think. And it's definitely the thing to make physical cheek connection, no LA air kissing here. Amongst men it seems that only good friends kiss so the behaviour of people I'd never met before was a little unexpected. Mind you, you have two options, be terribly English and all embarrased about it, or go with the flow, you came here to experience another culture. And kissing a dozen men one night certainly counts as that for me.

Liz now says that I 'initiated' a kiss... I 'lunged' apparently... she's wrong of course, I think, but it was early and I was tired, maybe a little unsteady on my feet (stop laughing at the back, it might be true)... Truth is, I probably did, it seems so natural when everyone else is doing the same thing, and it seemed only polite.
 
Comments:
Laughing at the back.....of course not.... my sides ache!! I'm laughing at the front, at the sides, in the middle and both top and bottom (have I missed anywhere)!! Talk about tickling my chuckle button - Phil is just going to love the 'John starts kissing strange men'news item.... (I've given him your blog address). Now like a good Irish boy you should go and confess your sins to the nearest priest!! What a start to life in your new prestigious home - the neighbours will be talking soon. Bev the cake-maker arrives in Basel this weekend so fun (and champers) should be had by all.
 
Don't know what all the fuss is about, but then there's not that many Agentinian men (or women) here, so experience is somewhat limited. Bye the way is Liz also experiencing this phenomenon but keeping quiet about it, or is John the centre of attention.
 

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